He's Mine Again

I got Cullen from the orphanage today.  He remembered me and wanted me to feed him his food.  He is really clingy- he is on my lap as I type this right now and if I put him in another chair or even down to walk to starts screaming.  I managed to change his diaper without getting bit!

I gave out the lollipops to the kids but the director's wife asked me to hold off giving all the donations because she will gradually pass them out.  They were in school when I went there so I didn't want to distract them for that.  They were learning body parts and days of the week.  It is funny to hear them pronounce different body parts.  Cullen was walking around being the class clown the whole time.  They all started chanting his name and he had the biggest smile and kept clapping. 

Gina- I gave Mamo the card and he loved it.  He kept smiling and looking at the pictures. 

Becky- I saw both your little ones at Resurrection.  Ebenezer is HUGE- great personality and is crawling.  He is much bigger than Diborah and Cullen.  Both were getting fed while I was there and are definitely taken care of.  I gave her your pictures too. 

It's good to be back in Ethiopia.  I love the people here. 

Thursday is my Embassy date and I think I am going to stay at the guest house until then.  They are making me my favorite Ethiopian dish for dinner! 

I'm Here

That was a long flight.  I boarded at 7:30 last night and it didn't take off until 10:00.  Overall it was a good flight.  We did have a scary moment with a man but I will explain that more later.

I managed to do all the luggage myself (with the help of another CCI family) and didn't even have to pay the demanding men at the airport or for them to scan my bags.  If I can do this then the week should be pretty easy to handle (I hope!). 

It is 11:00 here so I am going to bed.  I get Cullen tomorrow morning and I get to deliver all the donations!

I will post more tomorrow as I am exhausted.

At DC

Am I gonna sound like a kid if I say "I'm bored!"? Sorry Grace!!

The flight here was great. I hope I won't have an issue with my extra bag at Ethiopian airlines. Thanks again for all those donations!

And I'm off...

I should be leaving in the next 30 minutes to head to the airport.  My first flight is to DC and then I take off at 8:30 tonight to Addis Ababa. 

I think Kaden knows I am leaving as he won't even sit and eat breakfast in his own chair- if you know Kaden he never has a problem eating! 

In less than a week we will have another Meiser. 

If anyone needs to talk to Doug just send him an email.  

THANKS AGAIN FOR ALL THE DONATIONS!!!  I AM TAKING OVER 34 DVDS, TONS OF DIAPERS & WIPES.  WOO HOO!!!!!!!!!!

Love to all....

Embassy Date!!!

I heard yesterday that we got the December 2nd Embassy date!!!  I am leaving on Sunday morning and will arrive there Monday night.  I have a long layover in DC. 

Thursday is the Embassy appointment so hopefully that goes well. 

Cullen and I will travel back on Friday night and will arrive (if all goes well) at Cincinnati at 3:32 pm on Saturday afternoon.  I am so excited that other CCI families will be on the plane with me.  If anyone would like to meet us there that would be great!

What a wonderful Thanksgiving this has been already. 

Cullen- I will get you on Tuesday morning! 

Back to packing and making arrangements... 

Starting to go crazy....

I need more patience!  I just want an Embassy date!!!

I heard good news last night from our director.  So far 4 children have the Dec. 2nd Embassy date and another 6 children can fit into this date as well.  We are one of the families waiting at the Embassy and are hopeful Cullen will be one of the remaining 6. 

We've heard that he is really starting to walk around and he loves playing with a girl his age.  Hopefully he will like playing with a boy his age too.  : )  When a lady was there he ran up to her wanting to be held because the nannies said she looked like me.  I hope he will keep remembering me for the next few weeks. 

I'm trying to stay busy to keep my mind off him, but nothing is working.. 

Hope to hear something on Monday.     

Birth Certificate

We got his birth certificate on Monday.  His DOB matches what his birth mother told us- 8/21/2009.  The next step is to get his passport which we are hoping to get it by Monday and then the paperwork goes to the Embassy.  So far everything extra the Embassy has been requesting doesn't apply to our case so we are hopeful for the Dec. 16th date. 

The orphanage director's wife has been emailing me some pictures of him.  He looks like he is really walking and very happy there.  He is smiling in most pictures.  I sent over a picture of the two of us and they printed it and gave it to him.  I was the happiest mama when I saw these!!!! 

She also asked that I bring over children's DVDs, clothes, shoes and toys for the older kids.  If anyone has stuff they would like me to take over there I will gladly do so.

Ethiopian Adoptions in the News

We came across this same article in the Cincinnati Enquirer on Friday, and were surprised at the number of adoptions from Ethiopia.  We are also very happy to hear that the program is going in the right direction.

http://www.journalgazette.net/article/20101013/NEWS04/310139983/1006/NEWS

Laughter - The Universal Language

Here is a video of Cullen with a friend of ours after we passed court.  You can see why we love this little boy so much.

We're Home

On a happy note- It is so great to eat pizza once again. 

Leaving Tsegaye was really rough yesterday.  When we got to the orphanage his nanny immediately grabbed him from me and took him to his room. 

When I was giving kids toys, bubbles and cookies and I had a complete meltdown.  I didn't think I could leave him.  I was hysterical and the nannies just laughed at me and spoke about me in Amharic.  Since he was new at this orphanage I had my list of many things to tell them (he likes formula with sugar in a cup, he eats a lot in the middle of the night, etc.) so that helped ease my mind.  I hope this next month and a half (hopefully!!!!) goes by fast. 

Here are a few great pics of Cullen during our trip.


Cullen with his birth mother




Big Smiles All Around



We taught him how to honk his nose

When we talked to the orphanage we asked them about their needs. They said disposable diapers and wipes are their first need followed by formula and then clothes.  Of course the orphanage was extremely grateful for all the stuff that we donated, and a lot of the kids were already wearing the clothes we dropped off the day we met Cullen.

On the flight home today we had about 40 kids from the Asante Kids Choir on our plane.  Every one of them were so well behaved and were so thankful when you showed them how to get the movies to work.

We've been on 3 continents in the last 24 hours... we are exhausted!

I'll post more as we hear from our agency about our Embassy date.  We are hoping for the December 16th date- just in time for Christmas!  There are multiple steps before you get the date but I am hoping we start hearing about the first step soon. 

Cullen- WE MISS YOU!!!!  You be a good boy and don't bite the nannies when you are getting changed like you did me all the time! 

Cullen - Officially a Meiser

Read previous post from today first.  Cullen is the fourth human member of the Meiser household (6th with Kelly math)!!!

We wrote a list of questions that we asked Tsegaye's Mom.  For anyone adopting, we highly recommend  you prepare these before traveling, even if you think that you will not meet her.  We had no idea that we would ever get to see her, and our first meeting was very nerve wrecking and we were in complete shell shock.  I know that the phrase, "chance of a lifetime" is used a lot, but has never been more true in both of our lives.

We asked:
Q - We know that Tsegaye is going to ask why his mother gave him up for adoption.  Can you tell us why?
A - I cannot afford him.

Q - If Tsegaye ever wants to meet you in the future, would you be willing?
A - Yes! (this absolutely made our day)

Through this process, we learned that she is from a family of farmers from 230 km south of Addis Ababa.  She was 19 years old when she had Tsegaye.  We also learned more about the culture in the area.

Court was a little nerve wrecking.  We were very prepared for court, but it was still very crazy thinking that the one minute that we had could change our lives forever.  The questions that the judge asked were things like:
Q - Why have you two decided to adopt?
Q - Are you prepared to handle the biracial aspects of raising this child?
Q - Have you learned about Ethiopia?
Q - Does your biological son know about this adoption?  What does he think?
A - Yes, but he is only one.  He does kiss his picture every night before he goes to bed.
Q - Have you fulfilled your education requirements?

When we heard the words, "Then he is yours" I saw the room light up....it's unbelievable that this little, awesome guy is now a part of our family.

We also decided to write a letter to his birth mom, and we made a hand written copy that we kept for Cullen.  In the letter we made a lot of promises to the birth mom to raise Cullen right - finish high school, attend college, and that we would encourage him to go for his Master's degree and PhD.  Writing this letter and the questions was one of the most difficult things we have ever done.  We don't know why we were privileged enough to be born in the United States, and into two great families - but it has definitely created a whole new perspective for us.  We both kept thinking that what if the situation was reversed, and that Kelly was giving Kaden up for adoption because we were born in the United States and some rich person from Ethiopia was coming to adopt him.  It's a tough thing to think about....

We head back to the orphanage tomorrow, and our mind is going to be on all these awesome kids over here that need families. We will post pictures on Wednesday (we are checking to make sure we are allowed to post them, we may only be allowed to post pictures of only Cullen) when we are back in the states.  If you know of anyone looking to expand their families - tell them to take a look and let us know if we can help.

Most of the kids were singing to us in English as we walked into Cullen's orphanage. The kids at another orphanage opened the gates for us, walked us around the orphanage and gave us a tour, and were so helpful.  These kids all just seem awesome over here.

Kaden - we are coming home dude.  Get ready for a big kiss from your mom and she says that you better stop using Bruno as a bench.

Our New Family

Our family officially grew by one today!!!  The judge asked us if we would like Tsegaye to be our son.  Of course we answered yes, and then she smiled and said, "then he is yours."

We leave tomorrow night at 10:15 pm and that is going to be hard.  We are going to the orphanage at 4:30 to spend time with him and the kids there before we leave.  I want to paint their fingernails and color with them.  There are so many great children in the orphange that it breaks my heart.  It makes their day just to get their picture taken with you. 

We found out that the mother was only 19 when she had Cullen.  Doug is giving him a bath and he is screaming so I will try to post more later.....